The Wedding Banquet (1993)

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Wai-Tung (Winston Chao), a gay Chinese immigrant living in the USA, pretends to be in a relationship with his tenant Wei-Wei (May Chin) to keep his real relationship with Simon (Mitchell Lichtenstein) secret from his visiting parents.

I mostly watched this because I was curious at how the 2025 remake had been described at putting a very different twist on the same material. That film is a useful contrast, a fluffier, thoroughly modern "love conquers all" look at modern sexuality, from an almost entirely Western point of view; its protagonist's traditional Korean wedding customs are a backdrop to a rom-com about commitment.

Ang Lee's original is much more interesting, largely because it straddles both the individualistic American perspective and a traditional Chinese one speaking to family and legacy. Wai-Tung's parents' perspectives are confronting but sympathetic, unlike the antagonistic off-screen grandfather in Andrew Ahn's re-do. It's subtle, sharply observed and much more interesting than it sounds like it will be from its romantic comedy concept.

- Sam - 2025-05-22 01:12:49